Single parent mortgage assistance?
I recently found out my husband is cheating and hasn’t paid the mortgage, taxes, utilities, loans for almost a year. He’s always done the bills and never lets me touch a penny of mine or his pay check. I always assumed the bills were being paid and there wasn’t much left over and never questioned anything. Then while cleaning out the closet in the office I came across a garbage bag full of unopened bills, some were even certified! The mortgage is way behind, there’s threats of foreclosure, he’s been paying just enough that the utilities would stay on making arrangements with them so I wouldn’t notice. I asked him for a divorce so as soon as I can afford it I’ll file. I’m 27 and in debt I wasn’t aware of until a few days ago. Is there any way I can get a new mortgage for my existing one that will consolidate my debts w/o raising payments and get me back on track so I don’t lose my house. My 3 children and I need this home, we don’t have anywhere else to go. He screwed me over, help?!