s it wierd that this 40 almost 41 year old woman is interested in a 28 year old male who has a disability?

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There is this 40 year old woman that I met on yourube. She has aspergers syndrome as do I as well,

For the past 2 months I have sent her emails and text messages. She sends me 10 text messages per day. I currently live in the Los Angeles area and she lives in Portland,or.

I’m only 28 years old,

She keeps asking me over and over again when I coming to Portland,OR to visit her.

Currently I’m unemployed as I have been since May 2008. She has been unemployed since July 2008.

Currently I live at home with my parents. This woman lives alone. She said if I come to Portland and we get along she may offer me her living room couch to live on and not charge me. She wants to get me out of my parents house.

There are some things that I don’t like about her. She stopped going to school after 8th grade. At age 15 she got married and had a child. At age 17 she had another child. She didn’t raise her kids. Her grandma and father did.

Even though she is uneducated she has been able to have a stable employement history.

She worked for Mrryll Lynch for 4 years do home repossesment, In that job she worked at a call center and made $ 3,300 a month and got health insurance. Her job was to call people who were delinquint with their house payments. She had the people with deliquint payments fax her their checking account statements, credit card statements and car loans. If she felt that the people would be unable to make their mortgage payments she had the home taken away from them.

For myself I graduated college with a BA 5 years ago. Becuase of my
visable disability employers have descriminated against me. The only jobs I have had are retail jobs.

Does this sound like a good or poor match? I have never had a girlfriend before because of my visable disability.

This woman sounds very tolerant and feels that my differences don’t bother her.

My parents think this is a foolish idea to hook up with a woman who is 12 years older than me.
My disabilities are mild tourettes, mild cp, aspergers syndrome and a learning disability.

I have been driving my own car for 11 years.

I have never moved out of my parents house before.
My parents don’t want me to move to Portland.

They think I’m a fool as do my friends.
She may be too low class for me.

4 Comments
  1. Reply
    Old Mister Happy
    May 2, 2011 at 3:56 am

    It sounds like a recipe for total disaster, which is brought about by disabilities in common. Try looking for positive traits in common, and forget this one. She sounds just too low class for a guy like you.

  2. Reply
    The Wiz
    May 2, 2011 at 4:28 am

    Follow your instincts, they’re probably right.

  3. Reply
    Nathan
    May 2, 2011 at 4:59 am

    She is probably just lonely. Stay with your parents and get her to visit you.

  4. Reply
    khole12
    May 2, 2011 at 5:57 am

    Invite her to visit you, maybe after you get your own shelter. When I’m “seeing” a boyfriend, we talk about things in common and not my/our disabilities. It would be very wise of you to invite this lady to your home/shelter and forget about seeing her in Portland. Continue to talk to her-she’s unemployed and can visit also. Treat her like a queen while she is in your city.

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