My wife forged my name and now wants a divorce.?
It is now 8 / 2009. Back 12/2005 My wife is my name on a credit line of $ 70,000 against our house, then took out 4 credit cards in my name and went to max it out for $ 20,000. I did not know where until 2007, when my credit card was declined and I asked him why. We had a joint acct and it was well that pays the bills. We’ve been married 10 years and have two children aged 7 to 10 When they (in an e-mail) said .. lol that I panicked! She had two different times over 5 years, where they ran the credit card for $ 17k and $ 20k, but my father helped us to do. I know I may sound stupid ***, but I trusted him because she is an excellent mother and loves her family and her family is really nice and the earth. I know that after the second time I got my own bank acct and must keep track of money, but I trusted ihr.Drei days after I discovered that I wrong, I’m laid off and my father was in a hospice in his death bed waiting to die, then we ask their parents for money to us through the summer. They are 6-8 months and my uncle and my aunt gave me a full time job to help the maids who work for it. I was happy just to save the house and thought we could save our marriage. They filed for bankruptcy and tried to pay the bills, but 4 months later, I had all their expenses for the bankruptcy. To be honest, we did not really nice “stuff” in our house. Our first mortgage is $ 214,000 and the line of credit up to $ 68,000 now, but since the bust of the housing market, we went the problems will only $ 250,000 for our atty Haus.Meine (and I speak with 2 Attys others) said that although they forged my name and blew all the money without getting anything she can get away! We are in the discovery process of divorce and if we can see, all of their financial records and where the money went, I hope we can understand some things. If their budget “bills” paid my atty said then, there’s nothing I can do. I live in Connecticut. Is not it unreal you read that? I tried to stay the best and thus keep the children in a cottage not in a crappy apt, but I think I was wrong. I stayed once I found to be false for $ 70k. Again … I lost my job and my father was dying, so I did everything I wanted was to keep. Is not that sad? I hope I can understand that money from their student loans or simply blew money. She has a mailbox for a while and perhaps acct in her name. Otherwise I will take him to court and let a judge to scold, because the problem is everything. Friends say after so much as I can and worry about the other children had to wait 30 days gehen.Ich for the discovery and then a better idea of my Situation.In their defense (I know I’m an idiot) it is an excellent mother (the worst in terms of financial resources), but he plays and emotional support in a way, I can not) and she got a second job presenting papers for one year after the debacle. But I think in time, if I do nothing and go away because the children go, I’ll regret for the rest of my life. I can never say I was a great father or husband Grande, far away, but she alone has ruined me, and children and now acts like she did nothing wrong and all questions silver are a thing of the past .. Your comments pls .. Yes, I want a divorce and therefore can stop living this lie and I will leave to remain together only for children. I honestly could not forgive him after the last time and we have been down all gegangen.Da they kept hidden from me, I had no idea they just skip all the money, until that she told me! We do not have nice things, and we both work Vollzeit.Ich do not agree with what I say ouragon writing, I’m lazy. Naive and trust, yes. I told him after the first time I really wanted to support the bills, but they refused. I would have an emergency, but it’s my fault.