Money and debt forgiveness agreements found after divorce but no money to take back to court.?

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Money and debt forgiveness agreements found after divorce but no money to take back to court.?
I was in an abusive marriage for 30 years, finally filing for divorce after therapy and leaving 3 times. We owned a biz together which was incorporated. Convincing me to return the third time only for worse abuse. Was so bad at work I was unable to go there even after an agreement was signed he was to stay away from my office. He 2nd mortgaged our home for a business in another town and a loan of 2M in his name. After 10 months of daily abuse I could take no more and agreed to what seemed fair. I gave him 30 properties we owned, most free and clear and took the business, I took the 2nd mortgage liability of 350,000 , the first of $ 680,000 and the 2 mortgages on the business he had forced me to sign under false pretences.He assumed the rest which included the 2M liability. Two days later he signed a short sale which forgave him the entire debt and also gave him a judgment of $ 275,000 which he (we) had invested in it using the mortgage money I am repaying. Our corp. and personal attorney was involved in it and this was never disclosed. He had taken the past 2 months income from the business, putting it in a personal account and ordered to return it in 24 hrs. He returned $ 738.00 and a typed paper showing the rest spent on business expenses, which in reality had already been paid from the business account prior. I have found so many places he was stealing and hiding money and others I can’t quite figure out how he did it. He was ordered to bring all bills current and brought none. There were countless violations he removed paperwork and didn’t fix which he called into the agencies after I took over. He even took the sales tax and payroll tax money and left nothing for the weeks payroll that I had to make, had extended all utility bills and paid no other bills but what was necessary to stay open. He had stopped making my mortgage payments and my home is under possible foreclosure. He has hundreds of thousands stashed somewhere and I can’t buy groceries. I figure he had been planning this for 2 years but my attorney believes longer. He is currently opening up a business which will be in competition with mine just to put me out of business. He had installed an eavesdropping and keylogging remote system at work and in my home and had monitored everything during the divorce, even printing and distributing some of my emails. He sold at least $ 50,000 of equipment from the business he got the loan on and lied about it. He is still on the mortgage of the business and should I fail he can walk in, pay it and take over, leaving me with nothing. My house will be foreclosed on and I truly will have absolutely nothing after 30 years of work and he will have it all. I know much of what he has done is illegal but no agency seems to want to help and I’m out of money for legal fees, not to mention energy. He spread rumors that I was the one stealing the money from the business, even to the bank, all the employees and people and friends we dealt with. My credit score is ruined due to his not paying the mortgage so I have no where to turn for financial help. I was already in therapy for the abuse being diagnosed as chronically depressed and having post traumatic syndrome from it. Using the fact I saw a therapist he also tells everyone I am mentally unstable and take drugs (antidepressants). I no longer have the money to continue the therapy I need now more than ever. I don’t know what to do or where to turn. Are there any agencies that help people in this type of situation? To find even half the money I need a more qualified person than me and going over all the papers, seeing even part of what he did continues to depress me. The worst is not having enough money to even breath and worrying about losing everything if I don’t keep going. Are there forensic accountants that work on contingency? Any agencies that can help me with my legal fees until it gets to court? I understand, as he is in contempt he will be responsible but my attorney wants the money as he goes. I complied with all the mediation agreements but as he did not when it finally came to me signing the property deeds over to him, I refused so now I suppose I am also in com tempt but he was to sign the stock in the co. at the same time but my lawyer received docs from his saying he would do so after I had signed the property deeds. All the stock cert. have disappeared as well as inherited stock I had and other files with bogus receipts and other proof of some of what he had done from my home after my alarm system was shut off by someone knowing my information and claiming to be me. It seems I am attacked still on a daily basis and just want it all over but am not going to give him everything, although he may end up with it if I can’t find some help. The therapist I saw, who also counseled him , says he is a pathological narcassist, who will not be satisfied until he completel

4 Comments
  1. Reply
    Kaori O
    January 28, 2011 at 8:29 pm

    He hide money like Jimmie Hoffa.

    You no find.

    Good for you to go.

    You forget him soon

  2. Reply
    The Nice Man
    January 28, 2011 at 8:39 pm

    I wish I could be of any help. You are going through a very testing time of your life.
    I live in a different continent, and I am unaware of the legal support system in your country.
    There are non-profit legal support agencies in every democratic countries. There will be some in your country too for sure.
    Locate them through google.
    Best wishes Madam.

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    olderbutwiser
    January 28, 2011 at 9:32 pm

    You can not do anything about the things he has done, so my advice is to put it, and him, behind you and move on. He will get what’s coming to him in due time, and it will not be pretty!

  4. Reply
    BEENTHEREDONETHAT
    June 6, 2011 at 8:41 pm

    IF YOU ARE IN FLORIDA FORGET IT. ALL WOMEN LOOSE IF HE HAS ANY CONTROL WHATSOEVER. MY ADVISE TO YOU AND YOUR SANITY IF YOU DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN IS TO JUST WALK AWAY. SELL WHAT YOU HAVE QUICK AND WALK AWAY. LEAVE STATE START OVER. PERIOD. AND BEFORE HE DRAINS YOUR ENTIRE LIFE AWAY FROM YOU.
    THEY WILL NOT DO ANYTHING TO YOU, JUST THE SAME THEY WILL NOT DO ANYTHING TO HIM. SHORT SALE ALL REAL ESTATE SO YOUR CREDIT WILL EVENTUALLY RECOVER. START A NEW LIFE.

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