It will last? Does he ever regret what he did?
My spouse is 10.5 years, I was 5 months ago. I caught him cheating with a girl 22-year-old was there, my ex was 35 years (he was his superior). We had just bought our first house together before 8 months. The day I surprised, I found a text message on his phone saying “I want to wake up some of your sweet lovin ‘He denied and said that” she “was just a joke. I pushed him out and he called me a cell phone crying saying that this is not what I thought, he tried everything to make me believe that this was not what I thought. But he never came home. Instead, he moved to the 22yr old “friend” and her roommate in a house just up the street where our house was. He lived there for 2 ½ months, while I’m home devastated and tries to keep up with mortgage, car payments and utilities has been on my own. I am ashamed to admit it, but I tried everything to try and save our relationship, but he never cared to accept the idea. Needless to say, he gave me no money for his missions, he just left everything. I had to leave the house because I could not bear to be there anymore, I was literally losing his head. I moved home, which is 3 hours and I’m back to my mother at the age of 30 years! He rode on his property at the end of August and said he was preparing his own place, which was a lie because they moved in together and now rent townhouse. I gave her things like our bed, TV, cooking tips, now stationed in the new place with this girl. I feel like a fool, and he believed this stuff, but I really want him to find his place. Now we get on our mortgage and loan payments in default, we now have to file for bankruptcy. I worked very hard for us, where we will be deprived of life not only for him all.Not I lost my best friend, my wife and my future, I lost my home and financial future as well that’s selfish acts, The worst is that he does not care. We have mutual friends and I heard that he is happy. Our friends tell me to go because he can not, as I go if I have to do on the way? He was in town a few days ago and said he brought his new girlfriend and present, every now wanted for 6 a couple months. was pretty stupid to me was before I met him gehen.Wie we be happy to know all the pain and suffering caused by it? How can it be “happy” to know? I wonder if his last “new” relationship, how something that started with lies, fraud and health? Will this relationship last? Was it “is worth losing everything?” I never saw it coming in I was totally unprepared and pain and injury I have is overwhelming. I wonder if he thinks of me or even regrets what he did?, I should also mention that he had an e-mail tells me he lives in the basement and another girl had lived with them. That would leave soon, he been informed of her life and she knew that everything he does drink, and apparently has a drug problem also taken. A week ago he finally admitted that he live with her, both of them. What a 35yr old man to a young girl 23yrs old to see Where does he see this?!